About The Author

About the author

A Word from Her Husband, J. W. Bond

I write this to offer a measure of understanding of who Sally Bond was. When I first met her, she was navigating a profound grief, having lost her son Rex in an accident caused by a drunk driver. I felt strongly that one meaningful way to master grief, though it never truly disappears, was to write honestly about both the circumstances and the feelings surrounding it. That conviction became the beginning of a very long road.

Sally had a foundational high school education and, by her own account, a limited vocabulary at that point in her life. I encouraged her to read challenging authors, to not settle for the comfortable or the familiar. After a period of quiet consideration, she came to me and asked if I would guide her. I handed her Machiavelli’s “The Prince.” My reasoning was that it would challenge her to build vocabulary and sharpen her thinking, and because she had always carried a deep, genuine interest in politics. That book was followed by Viktor Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning,” and from there she simply took off.

She moved through politics and American history with particular intensity, reading Zbigniew Brzezinski, David Kennedy, Bob Woodward, John Teeple, and many others. Her method was disciplined and entirely her own. She would write down every word she had not encountered before, along with its meaning, and post that list somewhere she could see it during her morning exercise routine. She would memorize each word and its definition before beginning the next list. This continued for years. By my estimate, she read through hundreds and perhaps over a thousand scholarly works covering American history, ancient history, politics, and character.

When the question of how to write arose, I recommended writer workshops at various universities. She reviewed the syllabuses carefully, concluded that they all used Ernest Hemingway as the primary example of style, and, though she had no great fondness for fiction, read enough of Hemingway to understand the model before she began to write in her own voice. She found that voice. It was warm, precise, curious, and entirely her own.

As for travel, when I first met Sally, her travels had consisted of Route 66 from Iowa to California and sailing trips to Hawaii. She had been hindered from birth by debilitating arthritis, rickets, and crossed eyes. She had her eyes surgically straightened before puberty, but she saw double for the rest of her life. She would say to me, “I am more fortunate than you are. You only see one of me, but I get to see two of you.” When I suggested, with more than a little trepidation, that we try some international travel together, her response was characteristic of everything she was. As she writes in the book: “I will be hot breath on the windows.” That response, that eagerness, that leaning forward into the unknown, is the genesis of this book. The best summary of who Sally was is contained in William Ernest Henley’s poem “Invictus.” She was, in every sense, the master of her fate and the captain of her soul.

SALLY'S OWN INTRODUCTION

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In Her Own Words

Writing “Goin’ To Weather, Sailing Through the Headwinds of Life” took ten years to complete. Its pages were filled with tears, because writing about my seventeen-year-old son Rex dying in an automobile accident caused by a drunk driver was emotionally difficult in ways I had not fully anticipated. Our sailing friends did not know how to respond to us about Rex’s death. We were all at a loss. My husband at the time, Bill, tried to manage his grief through alcohol. My older son Bob was finishing a sailboat race in Mexico when it happened. He had just gotten married, and his bride was waiting at the dock when Bob stepped off the boat for their honeymoon. They came home to a house where Rex had set up several pranks as a welcome home gift.

Father James, the Episcopal priest at Rex’s school, Bill, Bob, and I took Rex’s ashes out to sea aboard the very sailboat we had raced together. Bob read his thoughts about his brother’s death. We all cried until our tears ran dry. Losing someone so young can bring an entire family to a standstill, and that is precisely what happened to us.

I ran on the long sandy beach between our beach house and the Ventura coastline to bring myself out of the depression that followed. I knew Rex would have wanted our family to move on, to win races, to set goals that would bring us happiness. I focused my energies in positive directions: racing sailboats along the Southern California coast with my son Bob at the helm, placing first in most races. Outside of sailing, I embraced running marathons, skiing, and a demanding role as office manager for a real estate firm.

My love for endurance sports expanded into the world of triathlons. With deep commitment and rigorous preparation, I set my sights on the IronMan World Championship in Kona, Hawaii, and achieved my goal, finishing third in my age category at the age of fifty.

But among all of those milestones, the most meaningful chapter began when I met Walt. A thoughtful and quietly brilliant man, Walt holds a Ph.D. in Computer Science and dedicated forty-one years of his professional life to the Aerospace Corporation, where he contributed to the successful launches of space satellites. He also shared his knowledge as a college professor. He is, in the truest sense, a Renaissance man. He plays the violin, the banjo, and the guitar with real passion and joy.

Our connection was immediate and strong. Two months after we met, we were married. We began a new journey together, grounded in mutual respect, shared curiosity, and love. What followed was the second great adventure of my life.

QUICK BIOGRAPHY

Born Iowa, during the Great Depression
Physical challenges Crossed eyes, arthritis, rickets (present from birth)
Personal loss Lost son Rex to a drunk driver
Athletic achievements Third place, IronMan World Championship, Kona, Hawaii (age 50). Multiple first-place finishes in sailing, running, skiing, swimming, cycling, and kayaking
Husband J. W. (Walt) Bond, Ph.D. in Computer Science, 41 years at the Aerospace Corporation, college professor, musician
Books authored Goin’ To Weather, Sailing Through the Headwinds of Life (2014). Travel Adventures for the Leisure Class (2025, completed by Walt)
Philosophy Goin’ To Weather: drive into the headwind, channel determination toward worthy goals
Guiding poem Invictus by William Ernest Henley

TRIBUTE

Sally began writing these books with her whole heart. Her husband, Walt, traveled every mile of those adventures at her side. When she passed, he made sure her voice would not go quiet, completing her final manuscript so that her words could reach the world they were written for. These books are her legacy. They are also his love letter to her.

About the author

A life lived
with fierce
defiance

Sally Bond was born in Iowa during the Great Depression, arriving into the world with crossed eyes and severe arthritis in her arms, legs, and back. She developed rickets as a child. She had her eyes surgically straightened before puberty, yet she saw double for the rest of her life. Rather than treat this as a burden, she turned it into one of her most characteristic observations. She would tell people with a smile, “I am more fortunate than you are. You can only see one of me, but I get to see two of you.”

Where many people would have retreated from life’s relentless demands, Sally advanced. She educated herself through voracious, disciplined reading, working through Machiavelli, Viktor Frankl, Zbigniew Brzezinski, Doris Kearns Goodwin, and Admiral James Stavridis, among hundreds of others. She wrote down every unfamiliar word she encountered, posted the list where she could see it during her morning exercise, and memorized each word and its meaning before moving on to the next. She repeated this practice until she had read through, by her husband’s estimate, hundreds and perhaps more than a thousand scholarly works on politics, history, philosophy, and character.

Outside of her literary pursuits, Sally threw herself into endurance sport with the same determination. She competed in running, cycling, swimming, kayaking, sailing, and skiing events, placing first in many of them. The crowning achievement came at the IronMan World Championship in Kona, Hawaii, where she finished third in her age category at the age of fifty. She later went on to race sailboats along the Southern California coast with her son Bob, winning the majority of those races.

  • Cancer survivor
  • Quadruple bypass surgery
  • Broken neck during mountain biking
  • Knee replacements
  • Lost a son to a drunk driver
  • IronMan triathlete at age fifty
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